When it comes to sex toys, there’s so much to love. Often what comes to mind are dildos, vibrators, maybe even fluffy handcuffs. However, anal toys are sometimes forgotten or ignored, even though they’re a wonderful addition to spice things up in the bedroom, no matter your sexuality. Because some people might find inserting anything in that region quite intimidating or downright impossible, we’re here to help.
An easy way to explore anal play is by using a butt plug. Butt, what is a butt plug for, and what does a butt plug do? Are they all the same, and if not, what are the differences? This article will offer some guidance on what a butt plug is, what butt plugs are used for, and how to get ready to use one.
This article will cover:
- What Are Butt Plugs For?
- How to Get Ready to Use a Butt Plug
- How to Clean and Store a Butt Plug
What Are Butt Plugs For?
What is the purpose of a butt plug? Even though the name might not sound as sexy, a butt plug is actually a very sexy companion when you want to experience an intense sensation or orgasm. Because of its simple yet clever design a butt plug is a popular sex toy for anal stimulation. It can be used during solo play or when having sex with a partner or multiple partners. It’s up to you.
So then what are butt plugs used for? A butt plug can be used for both masturbation and while having sex with someone, as it’s also a safe and pleasurable way to prepare for anal sex. They can be used to enjoy anal stimulation without having to use your hands, so you can pleasure other parts of your body or someone else’s simultaneously. Butt plugs come in different sizes, designs, and colours, to fit everyone’s individual needs and preferences.
How to Get Ready to Use a Butt Plug
We’d love to say that using a butt plug is a matter of plug and play, but using one needs a bit of explanation and preparation. Firstly we need to mention that the anus does not self-lubricate1, therefore using a lot of lubricant is a must.
Why Relaxation Is Important When Using a Butt Plug
When you’re having anal sex for the first time you might feel insecure or scared, and that’s completely normal. However, you should make sure you give yourself or your partner some TLC and remove any pressure. It can be more difficult or downright impossible to insert a butt plug if you’re stressed or tense. The anus and intestines are easily damaged2, so start your anal play by creating a relaxed atmosphere.
When you’re still new to the world of butt plugs, it’s very important to start small. You’ll discover your limits easier this way, and prevent yourself from getting hurt or turned off in the process.
How to Insert and Remove a Butt Plug:
- Make sure your anus is clean and you feel comfortable.
- Grab a water-based lubricant and coat the butt plug with it.
- Apply some lube on your anus and gently push the butt plug in while relaxing as much as possible.
- The first few times you push gently, you might not be able to get the butt plug in fully, but take it slow, keep repeating the movement, and keep reapplying lubricant if needed.3
- Once the butt plug is in you can let go, and continue masturbating or having sex with a partner.
To remove the butt plug, apply more lube, hold the base of the toy and slowly pull it out. This might feel a bit strange, but as long as you’re using enough lube and try to relax as much as possible, you’ll get it out without any issues.
How to Clean and Store a Butt Plug
As you can imagine, hygiene is extremely important when indulging in some anal play. After using your butt plug, clean it by submerging it in soapy water and washing it thoroughly. Dry it off with a wipe or clean towel and store it somewhere safe and cool. Please remember to always read the instructions!
FAQs
How to Insert and Remove a Butt Plug?
It depends per person, but we’d advise you not to wear a butt plug longer than 30 minutes at a time.4
What Do Butt Plugs Feel Like?
Generally speaking, a butt plug can feel a bit intense and ‘firm’ once inserted, as if you’re ‘filled’. But mostly it should feel pleasurable.
Where to Buy Butt Plugs?
You can buy a butt plug in sex shops and online. Always make sure you go for the smallest size if you’re still a beginner and always choose a butt plug made out of body-safe material. Check our Deep & Deeper Butt Plug Set today!
What Is the Point of a Butt Plug for Women?
It’s well-known that the male g-spot can be stimulated through anal play, therefore using a butt plug can be very pleasurable for people with prostates. However, anal play is also used by women or people with a vulva as a preparation for anal sex or simply for extra pleasure during penetrative sex. This sensation is called double penetration and can intensify an orgasm immensely. Wearing a butt plug while stimulating the clitoris can also feel amazing to people with a vulva.
References
- National Institute of Health, 2021, Lubrication Practices and Receptive Anal Sex: Implications for STI Transmission and Prevention, Accessed 5 November 2024 https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8240147/
- National Institute of Health, 2012, Complete anal sphincter complex disruption from intercourse: A case report and literature review, Accessed 5 November 2024 https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3437385/
- Masterclass, Butt Plugs Guide: How to Use a Butt Plug, Last updated: Jun 7, 2021, Accessed 17 December 2024. https://www.masterclass.com/articles/butt-plugs-guide
- Healthline, You Shouldn’t Wear a Butt Plug All Day — But If You Do, Read This, September 22, 2021, Accessed 17 December 2024 https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/butt-plug-all-day#typical-guideline
