What is the male G-Spot: How to find and stimulate your prostate
A lot of people know their way around a penis; however, not many know what the male G-spot is (also known as the prostate).
For those new to prostate stimulation, it can feel like uncharted territory. Some might approach it with hesitation, but beyond the initial reluctance lies a world of exciting new sensations.
The prostate can bring immense pleasure and great orgasms, so if you've been avoiding this area, you might be missing out on a whole new level of sexual fulfilment. So let’s get to know our prostate! We’ll tackle the following:
- Where is the male G-Spot
- How to find male G-Spot
- How to stimulate the male G-Spot
- Best positions for hitting your prostate
Good to know: in this specific article, we use terms such as ‘male G-Spot’, and other gendered terminology. However, gender is a spectrum, and we’ve written this article for everyone! However you identify, whether you’re a person with or without a prostate, this article is for anyone who wants to learn more about it.
Where do men (and people with penises) have a G-Spot?
Not only people with vulvas have a special area inside their body capable of intense orgasms, people with penises do as as well - located inside the anus. Yes, that’s right, up the rear!
Often associated with cancer rather than with pleasure, the prostate, or P-spot, is a walnut-sized gland located inside your groin, between your penis base and the rectum. It (partially) produces cum, making it a crucial part of the reproductive system. It is also a source of immense, world-changing pleasure.
How to find the male G-Spot
While it can be activated through the perineum —located on the outside between the penis and anus — you’re going to have to enter your anus to properly find your prostate (or male G-spot location).
The prostate isn’t too deep, located only two inches inside your anus. Make sure to clean the inside of your behind first so you aren’t coming into contact with poop, then use our Perfect Glide Lubricant to lube your finger for easy insertion (you might also consider putting a condom on your finger).
Inseart your clean, lubricated finger into your rear end, then point it towards your belly button. If you encounter a rubbery or soft bulb of tissue, you're in the right spot.
How to hit the male G spot:
Hitting the male G-spot is a little trickier than simply jerking off. But it can easily be done with a little time, self-care and preparation. If you're going to try and find the G-spot on your partner, always ask for their consent first.
Fingering yourself
Prostate masturbation is one of the most satisfying techniques in masturbation for men(and people with penises). Here’s our step-by-step guide.
1. Wash your hands
Make sure to wash your hands before touching yourself, or any parts of your partners’ body (i.e. penis, mouth or eyes) to avoid infections.
2. Cut your fingernails
Use a pair of clippers to avoid hurting yourself whilst inserting your finger(s).
3. Relax
For first-timers, the anus is naturally prone to clench up at the first sight of a finger. It’s essential to become as relaxed as possible before getting started. Try meditation or advanced breathing techniques.
4. Use the come-hither motion
Slide the finger gently inside the anus, then use a come-hither motion to reach the prostate. Gradually increase speed to build pleasure.
5. Use the circle motion
Move the finger in a clockwise direction before reversing counterclockwise. Change the pressure on the prostate for maximum pleasure.
6. Use a vibrating motion
Press your finger against the P-spot and tap it rapidly. Vary between moving your finger side to side or up and down to find out what you like.
With a partner
Bottoming is a brilliant way to orgasm, all while saving your penis for a traditional orgasm later. Follow many of the same steps as the fingering guide, but make sure to use as much lube as possible before being penetrated, especially if your partner has a long or thick penis. An important note: before proceeding, always make sure to ask for your partner’s consent.
While anal sex is common among gay men, straight men can also be penetrated by their partner with a strap-on dildo. This is known as pegging. Some men might be a little squeamish about this practice, but they are simply missing out on one of life’s greatest gifts.
Why not talk to your partner about it today? Tell them you read a very interesting article…
Best positions for reaching the Male G-Spot
When it comes to stimulating your G-spot, not all sex positions are created equally. Here are a variety of great — and sexy — positions for easy stimulation:
- Facedown with a pillow under your hips
- Lying down with your legs far apart and slightly bent
- On the side with one leg up to your chest
- Doggy style on your hands and knees
Find out which position is most comfortable for you, or switch between them as you would during regular sex to keep the excitement going.
Conclusion
It might be a little daunting, but trust us, prostate stimulation can take your orgasms to a whole other level. We hope you now know what the male G-spot (aka prostate) is and how to use it to maximise your sex life. Dip your toes into G-Spot stimulation and who knows what it’ll bring. Ready to take it to another level? You might want to have a look at lube and our deep and deeper butt plug for even more pleasure. Enjoy!
FAQs
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How deep is the male G-spot?
The G-spot is located a few inches inside the rectum.
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How long does it take to reach the G-spot orgasm?
Mileage varies depending on technique and toys used, but expect around 15 minutes of fun before reaching the prostate oragsm.
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What does a male G-spot orgasm feel like?
While more difficult to describe than penile ejaculation, a prostate orgasm is considered to be far instense and euphoric.
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Can I use toys on my G-spot?
When it comes to prostate play, the more sex toys the merrier. Consider using a prostate massager or stimulator for mind-melting orgasms.
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